Debbie Lynn Stoeckel

November 17, 1963 - July 15, 2019

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STOECKEL (Bittner), Deborah Lynn

Debbie was born on November 17th, 1963 and raised in Dayton, OH. She was the first of 6 children, all of whom attended Saint Rita Grade School and Chaminade Julienne High School. At an early age Debbie developed incredible friendships, many of which lasted until this day. Her joy in life was to connect with others and live in the moment. Whether it was during high school on the drill team, her fun filled years at Bowling Green (maybe too much), attending her son’s sporting events, vacations with her husband Bill, or her beloved trips to Edinboro Lake with extended family. Nobody was a stranger when Debbie was around.

Besides her family and friends, Debbie’s passion lied in giving back to others, and helping them through struggles she could relate to. As a heart transplant recipient and cancer survivor, Debbie was naturally connected to a community of people that needed support just like her. Through Change of Heart and Pink Ribbon Girls, Debbie was not only able to take advantage of the amazing help these programs offered, but she was also able to give back. Debbie did what she did best, put others before herself. For many years Debbie enjoyed volunteering and being a part of support groups. It gave her a true sense of purpose and showed those around her the true meaning of life, no matter how long or how short.

Anyone who met Debbie knew she was a fighter, someone who never gave up. She was dealt a tough hand in life but through that she showed us your situation is only what you make of it. While it is easy to think her time on this Earth was cut short, she was always so grateful to have a second chance at life after her transplant. That meant more memories with the ones she loved. She inspired countless people and gave them hope. She always leaned on her faith and trusted in God to lead the way.

Debbie now lives on through her parents, Clarence and Judy Bittner, husband William Stoeckel, two sons Matt and Sam Tunnacliffe, siblings Mike Bittner (Robyn), Diane Montgomery, Beth Hale (Dennis), Karen Nartker (Tom), Jeff Bittner (Jane) and many loving extended family and friends.

Visitation will be held Friday, July 19, 2019, from 5 p.m. to 7 p.m. at Hodapp Funeral Home 6410 Cincinnati-Dayton Rd. Liberty Twp., OH 45044. Mass of Christian Burial will be held Saturday, July 20, 2019, at St. Maximilian Kolbe 5720 Hamilton Mason Rd, Liberty Twp., OH 45011 at 11 a.m. For those family and friends that feel inclined, an inurnment will take place at Gate of Heaven Cemetery Wednesday, July 24, 2019, at 10 a.m.

It is Debbie’s wish that instead of flowers, friends and family direct contributions to the 501(3)c Pink Ribbon Girls 15 South Second Street Tipp City, OH 45371 or 501(3)c Change of Heart Foundation 240 Walker Lane Edgewood, KY 41017. These organizations work towards providing comfort and support to those who are affected by organ donation (Change of Heart) and breast/ovarian cancer (Pink Ribbon Girls), both of which touched Debbie’s life in tremendous way.

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Pat L Bell - Jul 20, 2019
Dear Judy, I am heartbroken about your loss. Just know all of us at The Dayton Woman's Club are thinking and praying for you and your dear family. Love and prayers, Pat Bell
Cheryl - Jul 18, 2019
My deepest condolences to the family and friends of Debbie I meet her in a time in which she was struggling. She had such determination and will she was truly an inspiration
Mike and Debbie - Jul 18, 2019
Clarence and Judy, Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Tom, Kim, John, Bill and Mike - Jul 17, 2019
Bill, Sam & Matt - Our prayers go out to you and your family. She was such a beautiful person!!
Greg Wingham - Jul 17, 2019
Even though I only met Debbie a couple times I could tell she was a good woman. I’m very sorry for your loss and hope that God keeps you and helps you during this time and will be praying for you and your family Bill. God bless.
Ralph & Teresa - Jul 17, 2019
Bill, Sam and Matt, What a beautiful woman Debbie was. She will forever be remembered. We have been blessed beyond measure for the friendship you all have given us. Our love and prayers to the family.
Judi - Jul 17, 2019
Debbie was one of the strongest women I have ever met. She was a determined lady always reaching out to others. As sad as I am that she is no longer with us, I am happy that she is no longer in pain and that she got her wish to go home to her heavenly father. Clancy and Judi have raised wonderful children and Debby is certainly a test of booty to that. Much love to the entire Bittner bunch
Annamarie - Jul 17, 2019
My sympathy and prayers for Debbie’s family, and everyone who loves her. May you be comforted by your memories, and your love for each other.
Asia - Jul 16, 2019
So sorry to hear about this . She was a great inspiration to me and a great friend to everyone
Joe and Diane Martin - Jul 16, 2019
Bill, So sorry to hear of your wife's passing. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Terri Jung - Jul 16, 2019
My condolences to everyone that loved Debbie. I will continue to keep you all in my daily prayers and will pray for God to give your strength and peace as you go through the next several days and beyond.
Alice and Burt - Jul 16, 2019
We send our heartfelt condolences to the wonderful family that surrounded Debbie. We wish you all peace and love. Alice and Burt Saidel
Marty Corrado - Jul 16, 2019
The Bittners' are one great family! I think I feel for ya'll, and I know what you are going through. Lean on each other and you will get through this! Debbie is a great person from a great family!